I have been amazed by the power of community lately. And what amazes me more is how I’ve had lessons of community spring up in my life. I recently watched a movie entitled Lars and the Real Girl. The movie was disturbingly uncomfortable at first, but really grew into a powerfully heart warming metaphor for life. Here is a guy that lived the ‘loner life’ and was thrust/compelled toward life with others.
What’s really intriguing is the reaction of Lars’ church, doctor/therapists, and even family. People have needs for fellowship with others that run so deep. This story would be more common with friends you know if it wasn’t so awkward. The end of this movie is so rich (and sad-esque), but more than anything it’s the result of relationship, moderate acceptance, and people that guide his life within the context of community. And some urban legends have called this film the prequel to the Notebook, but I’m not buying it.
In addition to this movie, someone recommended the movie, Fight Club. Now, a huge disclaimer need be mentioned about the weirdness of this movie. But the first 30 or so minutes are great at dealing with the desire for communication, vulnerability, and acceptance within community. The main character in the movie, Ed Norton, happens to be a loner of sorts and gets addicted to visiting various drug, alcohol, and cancer support groups. The catch is that he doesn’t have any illnesses or addictions. He is just impacted by the freedom of communication and ‘soul feelings’ he gets in sharing life with these struggling communities. Of course his whole life gets tweaked when he meets another faker. Watch at your own risk…
And then there is cycling. I love to cycle. In fact, I’d just about to sell my car and ride everywhere (if it weren’t for my non-pedaling family) and the crazy effort it would take to get to the San Fran airport in the winter. But it’s also interesting that as much as I like to ride, riding with others on the routine ‘River Road trail’ is way more fulfilling. It’s the element of community again.
Community ought to make sense since God Himself gave us six commands that talk about life with others directly. It’s time with good friends that teaches us the great need for God and helps us better understand the beauty of the Trinity relationship. And without a doubt... I am thankful for the community of friends, family, and collegues that God has given to me.
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